Man Sends Wife Packing for Demonstrating Sex Styles during sex

By Benjamin Ngah

“I do not know what this man wants from me. Since last night he has been harassing and questioning me about things I do not understand. He has been forcing me to accept that I have other sex partners who teach me how to make love. He does so to me each time he finishes making love to me. Last night immediately he finished making love to me he started insisting again that I must tell him all of my sex mates.  He insulted me and told me that I make love like a whore. These were the grieving words of a beautiful slim and fair lady whose only names this reporter got as Irene. She hails from Kom, Mezam Division.  She was sitting beside her luggage by the junction into their house at Mile III Nkwen. Sobbing with tears falling profusely from her frail eyes she told…

Her pitiful story

  To a crowed of idle onlookers who had gathered to watch the morning drama, this was real madness. According to her, she has been married to Mr. Ambe, a man from Mankon in Mezam Division barely four months ago. They have for this short period of time, had a series of crises. These crises stem from the fact that the man is exceedingly green-eyed. He does not trust her for whatever reason, she does not understand. He has taken possession of her phone and has forbidden her from visiting or being visited by whomever. She is not allowed to walk around with friends. She does not go to church or to the market except in the company of the man. Each time a person greets her particularly a man, he would subject her to thousands of agonizing questions in an attempt to decipher what they have in common.  In most cases if she does not tailor her answer well to kill the husband’s ego, he would employ…

Violence

Pointing to some scars beside her left eye, “see my face, he almost damaged by face with blows,” Irene wept. “He has been on me like this for number of months that I have lived with him. He at times he locks me up in the house, bullies at me and hits me simply because he thinks I am dating men. I am even already pregnant, carrying his baby. He seems not to understand. He tells me that the baby is not his since I have refused to tell him some of my boyfriends. I have notice that he does not want be to react or do anything when he is making love to me. If I hold him tied, if I scream, if whisper love to him, if I turn, if I wiggle my waist and…he would accuse me, declaring that some of my boyfriends most have taught me…

The Sex Positions

But what Ambe has failed tounderstand is that sex is an instinct and no one teaches anyone about it. Sexand the styles involved in its having it come without anybody teaching theother. Though when Ambe was quizzed on why he is violent to his wife and hassent her packing, he disclosed that it is not all about sex and that he betterknows his wife. According to him, he does not trust a woman who challenges himin everything they do.